You Better SPEAK NOW

'Speak now or forever hold ur peace' the words said by preachers at the end of wedding ceremonies all over the world, right before the vows . It's a last chance for protest, a moment that makes everyone's hear race, and a moment i've always strangely saying what they'd kept inside for years like in the movies . In real life, it rarely happens .

Real life is a funny thing you know. In real life, saying the right thing at the right moment is beyond crucial . So crucial, in fact, that most of us start to hesitate, for fear of saying thing at the wrong time . But lately what i'e begun to fear more than that is letting the moment pass without saying anything .

I think most of us fear reaching the end of our life, and looking back regretting the moments we didn't speak up . When we didn't say 'i love you', when we didn't say 'i am sorry' . When we didnt stand up for ourselves or someone who needed help .

Words can break someone into million pieces, but they can also put them back together . I hope u use ur words for good, because the only words u'll regret more than the ones left unsaid r the ones u use to intentionally hurt someone .

What u say might be too much for some people . Maybe it will come out all wrong and u'll stutter and u'll walk away embarrassed, wincing as u play it all back in ur head . But i think the words u stop urself  from saying r the ones that will haunt u the longest .

So say it to them.Or say it to urself in the mirror . Say it in a letter u'll never send or in a book million might read that someday . I think u deserve to look back on ur life without chorus of resounding voices saying 'I cud've but its too late now .'

Theres a time for silence. Theres a time waiting ur turn . but if u know how u feel, and u so clearly know what u need to say . u'll know it .

I dont think u should wait . I THINK YOU SHOULD SPEAK NOW .